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Decluttering as Self-Care: How Clearing Your Space Calms Your Nervous System
Have you ever walked into a cluttered room and felt your body tense up? Maybe your heart starts racing, your mind feels scattered, or you suddenly feel exhausted before even starting your day. If so, you're not alone. Clutter is more than just a mess—it can be a source of stress, anxiety, and mental overload.
But what if I told you that decluttering is an act of self-care? That clearing your space isn’t just about tidying up, but about nurturing your well-being?
Why Clutter Feels Overwhelming
Our homes are extensions of ourselves. When our space is cluttered, our minds often feel cluttered too. Studies in psychology show that excess clutter can lead to:
Increased cortisol levels (the stress hormone)
Decision fatigue and mental exhaustion
A sense of overwhelm, making it harder to relax
Disrupted sleep and increased anxiety
On the flip side, a calm, organized space can support a calm, regulated nervous system—helping you feel lighter, clearer, and more at peace.
Decluttering as a Form of Self-Care
Self-care isn’t just about bubble baths and spa days. It’s about creating an environment that supports your well-being. When you release physical clutter, you’re also releasing stress, mental load, and emotional weight.
Decluttering becomes self-care when:
💛 You approach it with compassion instead of pressure
💛 You focus on creating ease rather than just "getting rid of stuff"
💛 You see it as an investment in your peace of mind
A Simple Visualization to Shift Your Mindset
Before you begin decluttering, take a moment to close your eyes and imagine your ideal home. What does it look like? More importantly, how does it feel?
Do you feel light, free, and peaceful?
Is your space cozy, inviting, and filled with things you love?
Does it support your daily life with ease and flow?
By connecting with this vision, you can approach decluttering with intention and self-care in mind, rather than as a chore.
Practical Steps to Start Decluttering Mindfully
If you’re ready to clear your space (and calm your nervous system in the process), here are some simple steps to begin:
Start small – Choose one drawer, one shelf, or one corner at a time. Progress over perfection!
Use the “Just One Thing” method – Find and remove just one item that no longer serves you. Then another. Then another.
Tune into your body – Notice how your breath and energy shift as you declutter. Does this feel lighter? More spacious?
Set a timer – Even just 10 minutes of focused decluttering can create powerful shifts.
Celebrate your progress – Every item released is a step toward a calmer, clearer home.
Decluttering = Creating Space for What Matters
Decluttering isn’t just about getting rid of things—it’s about making room for what truly supports you. A clutter-free space means more:
Room to breathe
Mental clarity and ease
Energy to focus on what you love
So, next time you’re feeling overwhelmed by your home, remember: decluttering is a form of self-care. It’s a way to nurture yourself, create peace, and bring more intention into your daily life.
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Links & Resources Mentioned in This Episode:
Birthday Week Celebration - Five Days of Deals https://www.thecommonnest.com/birthday
Clearing Clutter Challenge https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/clutterclearing
The Declutter QuickStart Guide & Checklists: https://thecommonnest.myflodesk.com/quickstart
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